John 3:16-17 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
When we refuse to condemn a person or a group of people, is not the same as accepting their lifestyle or even condoning their sin.
It is choosing to walk and talk as Jesus did. Jesus never spoke a condemning word to anyone in sin, (except to the religious bigots of His time). Not to the women caught in a sexual sin, not to Zacchaeus or even the women at the well or even to the Roman Soldiers that occupied their land and defiled the temple.
Jesus never condemned and He saved the world. He never even used the modern religious cliche; “well you know I just hate the sin but not the sinner.”(right)
The Pharisees and Sadducees, on the other hand, condemned everyone but never lead a person into the kingdom of God.
Now who do you choose to be?